Looking for another...

We've had a very honest and frank conversation after a looong looong time of both of us making jokes and witty hints that I should have a second wife. Well we discussed the values and merit of it and have now started the journey of looking into adding another woman to our relationship. Here's our write up:

We'll see if we get any interest.

Married couple looking for a third hetero/kinky woman in a safe, sane, and consensual environment. Wife physically not fit to play. Intercourse hurts. Not too experienced Dom husband looking for a play partner to learn and experience bondage, discipline, and mind games and sex with. Some service oriented roles farther down the line if personalities work out. Wife not interested in sex with play partner, but perhaps a little control. She is more submissive, but might have a bit of a topping streak to her.

We’ve often joked about a second wife for me, someone who can do some things that my wife either has no interest or cannot physically do. We have been together for over twenty years, but are just hitting our forties. We are very close and loving and share our lives together and that is an environment we are looking to share with another. We’ve had minimal experience with BDSM /Master/slave play as our needs/wants are not quite aligned. I’m looking for someone interested in exploring this dynamic more deeply.

Ultimate best case scenario: Find a woman who is interested in a longer term exclusive relationship (sexual with husband, nonsexual but supportive with wife) culminating in moving in and contributing to the household (second/sister wife) and becoming a third equal partner with us. We live in San Francisco and have a room available for woman to rent/contribute to household. Long term this woman would be an equal member of the household.

You should be drug and disease free, non-smoker, female, submissive and kinky between the ages of 32-45, interested in living in the Bay Area, and intelligent. Flexibility would be a plus as we are looking for a bondage girl.

We are:

Husband: 42, 6 foot, 185lbs. Dirty blond hair, trim and fit, hitting the gym to get in better shape, multiple Master’s degrees, fully employed, Dominant.

Wife: 41, 5 foot 4, heavy, recovering from operation with some additional health issue, college educated, employed, minor submissive.

One medium sized dog and one cat!

We live in San Francisco and have for most of our lives.