In sickness and in health

Being married to my slave and her being my wife far longer than my slave, we can fall back into so many different roles. Granted this isn't a TPE exchange yet, but the idea that a Master has to be this big old badass all the time is well, laughable for me. It just seem to fit in with reality. For me, I'm far more interested in showing more dimensions than just one.

Knottygirl has been sick, with a cold and that's when I get to nurture her. Now one could view this as role reversal, however we don't. I may be waiting on her, but to us, I'm taking care of my property. Helping to get her better. She views this the same way. In some ways the power dynamic is the same, she's dependent upon me for certain things now. I certainly am forceful in what she should be doing. So I'm still the one in power only it's different from whips and chains. Here it's more doctor role based.

What is interesting is that she feels guilty that she cannot perform for me, that her mind is very willing, and in this state, locked away in bed, dependent upon me to take care of her, she gets frustrated that her body cannot do what she wishes she could do for her Master. (BTW, she did take her temperature with my cock the other night, we just had to check to see if she was running a fever!)

So big badass Master has a tender side to him, but just remember, there's more than one way to be dominant!

New Task

Friday we played, it wasn't rough, but slave accomplished her new task/responsibility with grace and aplomb. There were a few times, where she went over my nail with her fingers, and I could read it on her face as she tried to imagine the nail running through her pussy, trying to decide if it was smooth enough, then taking no chances, she continued smoothing it down! I wonder if any one else out there tasks their slave, to do some pampering to their well deserving Master?

New Jewellery

Well finally some new nipple jewellery for Knottygirl! It's been over a year and we finally changed out the bars for some half shields. We tried a few different types and she felt that these looked the best and were the most comfortable.

They are little half-shields that dangle from her when she's in position, hands and knees, oh so charmingly while I spank her!

The collar we picked up from Folsom St. Faire last year!

A new responsibility for her

Ok, so far I'm not the big bad Master, with whips and chains, knife/edge play, bloodsporting, heavy leather, Gorean signals and positions, and other bad-ass scary MASTER techniques that make my slave a quivering lump of submissive flesh, afraid for her very soul if she so much as makes a move out of place. What I have come to enjoy is a more pampering type of task for my slave rather than demanding her to kneel between my legs, wearing noting but a leather g-string/chastity belt and 6 inch patent leather high heels, with my cock in her mouth 6 hours a day.

As we go along discovering each other's limits and desires in this relationship, I've found that training works especially well when I turn something that she wants/likes to do into a responsibility/task that she now has to do. So truth be told, giving me the leather flogger, the full leather Master suit, the St. Andrew's cross, the knife and surgical tools, the needles for needle play, and all the other hardcore toys would probably overwhelm me, and I wouldn't know really what the hell I was doing and probably cause more harm than good! Hell a nice firm hand swung directly to her backside seems good enough for both of us currently...........!!

So I find that what I wish of her now more than the gear, the physical ability, and the standard tools, is the training of her mind, the conditioning of her will, the ability to make her think more and more about Serving her Master. Train the mind and the body will follow.

So something like her daily mantra, puts her mind into reinforcing thoughts and feelings she should have about her Master and about herself. You can find her mantra here. So a new responsibility that I have assigned her is that she is now in charge of taking care of my nails. Fingernails at first, feet later.

So I get a pampering from my slave, who now kneels on the floor in front of me, takes my hands and gives me a full manicure. In her actions, she is totally focused on me, her Master, and she now lovingly, adoringly and carefully cuts, cleans, soaks, buffs and files my nails.
She in turn has always in the past, when we were Vanilla, complained about my claws that are toes, and the occasional hangnail/sharp nail that would scratch her sensitive pussy as I fingered her to orgasm. Now if she gets scratched, she only has her own self to blame! So her "punishment" for not fulfilling her responsibility will be the infliction of my sharp nails scratching and cutting her pink pussy flesh, as I roughly finger her wet slit.

She has only herself to blame now!!! Devious? Perhaps!