A few weeks ago, I assigned slave a rather large task. After a giant blow out and subdrop, she fully committed to me as my slave. We are taking this slowly which I feel is very healthy so her task was to read up on other slave blogs and get a better idea of the lifestyle, issues that others have had and what certain things she might be interested in pursuing. I have been working on a checklist for us, a listing of a lot of subjects and issues in BDSM for both of us to go over.
The idea is that each of us makes a notation for each item on the list, Y,P,N.
Yes
Possibly
No
These marks key both of us in in what are wants and needs are. She has not been exposed to kink as much as I have so we will be discussing a lot of items on the list. Her task these last weeks has been to read up and get familiar with as much as she can, because I will be a grumpy Master if I have to explain every other line item on the list to her!
Once the lists are done, this will give me a better idea on making our scenes that much more enjoyable for both of us. Communication in all forms combined helps far more than asking, "Do you like this?"
"Ummm, yeah."
"How about this now?"
"Ummm, feels weird."
"Ok, how about this?"
"Ouch! No No No. Onion!!!!"
You can buy costumes!!!! slave got her French Maid outfit along with a naughty school girl and I promptly had her doff the "uniform" and put all the groceries away. She enjoyed herself, the uniform was comfortable and it drove her Master wild! After the groceries were put away I marched her into the bedroom, bent her over the bed and promptly diddled the maid to a sticky giant orgasm! Yummy!
